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Interview Questions for George Sa'adeh

Could you please introduce yourself and give us some background about yourself and your family?

Can you tell us more about how your daughter was killed?

What happened when you were in your car and saw those jeeps?

What did you think when the shooting started?

What was your condition at this point?

Did you speak with the soldiers at all?

What were you feeling at that point?

Was Christine conscious?

You said that at a certain point you woke up and realized what happened. What did you think then?

Did you have any formal apology from the army afterwards?

How did you respond to them in the ambulance?

How do you deal with this?

Were you angry?

Has your relationship with God changed since that happened?

Did you speak with her about the visions that she was having?

What do you think about the fact she was getting all those signs about her own death?

Did that help you accept what happened?

Do you miss her?

Did the shooting happen in a place you have to pass every day?

Has there been any investigation?

Do you want an investigation?

But do you think that if the army somehow took responsibility that it might help you move past?

How did you mourn?

How did you first find out about the Bereaved Families Forum?

How soon after your daughter was killed did you join?

How did you feel before you met the other families in the Forum? What did you expect?

Was it a scary idea? Was it strange?

Are there people in your community that are upset that you went to meet with Israelis?

I think you told us about why it's important to meet with Israeli families, but is there anything hard along the way?

Why don't they come?

Are you ready to get up in front of a large group of people and tell your story?

Does that feel difficult?

What do you think of the notion that acknowledging the pain of the other side makes you weaker?

You said you have a lot of faith that helped you through this; do you have faith that the situation will improve?

At the time of Christine's death there were a lot of Palestinian families suffering in the same way. What effect did that have on you?

Have you seen any families that lost someone react very differently?

I've seen people on both sides that are angry and vengeful, if you see this, what do you think and why do you think they react that way?

What kind of support do you need?

Wouldn't it be easier never to tell the story again?

Do you think you can say you've forgiven those who killed your daughter yet?

Whom do you blame?

What in your life prepared you for this?

Do you think selfishness and lack of respect and dialogue is the problem here?

Who do you think knows what's right and what's wrong in the current situation?

What do you think is the root of the conflict?

As a Christian where do you see yourself?

Do you have any fears about life for your other daughter?

Despite the loss of your daughter Christine, you decided to help remedy the conflict by joining the Bereaved Families Forum. How does this work or this organization contribute to improving the situation?

Were you previously a member of any other organization that engaged in joint Israeli Palestinian activities?

What are your goals for the future?

Do you think your work contributes to peace?

What are the challenges you face?

Did you ever doubt that you are doing the right thing?

Did your involvement in the Bereaved Families Forum come as a surprise to you or people around you?

Has your work had any effect on your life or relations with your family of friends?

Do you feel there was a change in your sense of belonging?

What is the main personal price you pay in order to work in this field? What was the hardest part?

What do you consider a small victory?

What are the most important lessons you have learned through your work?

What is the main achievement you want to achieve for your people and country?

What is required in order to achieve this?

What does the word "peace" mean to you?

Do you think there will be peace in our time?

What do you foresee for the next five or ten years?

Who do you think are the people with the greatest influence upon the region?

And which parties are the most influential on the international level?

What is the biggest misconception about the Israeli-Palestinian conflict, both internationally and locally?

You say that the Israeli people are oblivious to the plight of the Palestinians. How can that change?

What is the biggest misconception about the nature of your work? Did you ever meet someone who appeared to know nothing about your work?

Has anyone ever accused you of normalization?

The word "normalization" has different meanings for different people. What does it mean to you?

Do you think fear plays a role in the Israeli-Palestinian conflict?

You claim that ambitions, not fears, drive the conflict…

What creates fear between the two peoples?